Saturday, August 16, 2008

Holistic Parenting From A Pan Afrikan Perspective

http://www.afrikanparenting.com/
i finnished this book and it was really good. a step by step guide to holistic parenting. poots and i had fun reading it. lol. i will continue to do all that i can recommended from this book. mmmmm...i know it will be hard. but isnt life. im saying it will be hard because i have noooo support in this area of my life. devin and his entire family buck at anything that is afrikan or holistic. and i get tired of feeling ganged up on. but its a small price to pay for the healthy development of my girl. i just wish that i could be left alone. and my decisions be just that MY DECISIONS. mrs paula can do all the controling she wants when Aerica has her baby in the future. lol. i mean not that she is CINTROLLING. but i know things will be different for the child that aerica has v.s my chil (akira). i say this because my ideals are different from thiers, devin is different from them. his whole childhood has been riddled with how they have treated him so much more different then his bro and sis. so i am not surprised if this goes for his kids too. i mean the most they have bought for akira is a Ravens baby bib, and THAT WAS THIS PAST WEEK! oh and a pack of wipes. lol. its just annoying to me that no matter what they always have soemthing to say. and its annoying because this is the way i choose to raise my child and i feel it should be respected. and not be talked to everytime they dont like something. just respect it as different and keep it moving. and this is what i'm talking about when i say its harder for me to mix in with his family. because that is what i am doing.he is not mixing in with mine.

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